At the start of their relationship, Juli has something important to say to Saskia. There we go, Saskia thinks to herself, she’s probably an alcoholic. ‘But it was infinitely worse.’ Juli wants a child.
Several years later, Juli gives birth to their son Saul. When the boy is a year old, Juli and Saskia travel to the Canadian hippie island where Karl, Saul’s biological father and a good friend of Saskia’s, grew up. During that trip, everything comes under a great deal of strain: Saskia’s relationship with Juli, her bond with Saul, her friendship with Karl, her writing.
A book of epic proportions *****De Volkskrant
In her (semi-)autobiographical ‘Night Parents’, de Coster describes her fear of looking after a child, her initial reluctance, the occasional sense of isolation from her new family and a non-biological mother’s efforts to free herself from the deeply ingrained archetype of the earth mother. Her fears are channelled into an affair. At the same time, she struggles with her parents’ rejection, who are principally opposed to gay parenthood and therefore do not see Saul as their grandson.
‘Night Parents’ is more than a topical novel, a journalistic travelogue or a memoir. It is a swirling mix of intimate night-time conversations, brooding diary excerpts, meaningful flashbacks and scenes filled with slapstick, culminating in a gothic novel complete with sawn-off fingertips and family secrets. But above all, ‘Night Parents’ abounds with (motherly) love.
De Coster at her best. Or rather, at her gentlest and most beautiful ****De Standaard